Civility, Owed and Earned Respect towards Employees

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Civility, Owed and Earned Respect towards Employees
Jaap de Jonge, Editor
Research on Civility by Christine Porath revealed that the 20,000 respondents (employees from all over the world) ranked Respect as the most important leadership behavior. However these respondents also report disrespectful and uncivil behavior is increasing each year. Porath's quite current book (at these times of President Trump) shows what incivility is costing organizations in an entertaining mix of statistical data and anecdotal evidence about the cost and reward to incivil and civil behavior. While some of the civility strategies discussed in the book could be considered somewhat basic (Say please and thank you, Don't interrupt, Share credit, Ask questions rather than barking orders), a surprising amount of leaders, managers and, as a result (!), organizations don't constantly practice them 😃.

According to Kristy Rogers, the main reason for the remarkable “disconnect” between the importance and current practice of respect is that some managers could be unaware of the difference between "owed respect" and "earned respect".
OWED RESPECT is given equally to all members of an organization. It includes civilty and a culture that each employee is considered inherently valuable.
A lack of owed respect is typical for following situations/environments: Taylor-like, micromanagement, uncivil, abuse of power, sense that employees are interchangeable.
EARNED REPECT recognizes specific individuals who are showing valued qualities or behaviors. It distinguishes employees who have exceeded expectations and, particularly in knowledge work settings, affirms that each employee has unique strengths and talents.
A lack of earned respect is signaled by phenomena like: stealing credit for other peoples’ success, failing to recognize individual achievements by employees.
Christine Porath, "Mastering Civility: A Manifesto for the Workplace", 2016, Grand Central Publishing
Kristie Rogers, “Do your Employees Feel Respected? Show Workers that they’re Valued, and your Business will Flourish”, HBR Jul-Aug 2018, pp. 62-71



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