How to Get Help from Someone Else?

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How to Get Help from Someone Else?
Roland van der Leede, Manager, Netherlands, Member
Most people are a bit reluctant to ask for help, especially in the work environment. That is because we feel uncertain, are afraid to be rejected, or fear for diminished status.
Heidi Grant argues that asking for help is an important skill in modern organizations. So we should get over our reluctance to ask for assistance.

For that the following interesting psychological approach can be helpful. It uses 4 clues to make the helper feel good about him/herself for helping you:
  1. Make the helper REALIZE you need help. Say: "I have a problem and need your help".
  2. Make the helper BELIEVE that you want help. Make the helper see you want help from her and don't want to go it alone.
  3. Make the helper take RESPONSIBILITY for helping. So you'd better ask her personal and in private.
  4. Ensure t... Read more? Sign up for free

Be Humble When Asking Help
Javier Elenes, Business Consultant, Mexico, Member

Trust is Also at the Base when Asking for Help
Jimmy Cheng-Wei, Management Consultant, Taiwan, Member


Conditions to Obtain Help
Jaap de Jonge, Management Consultant, Netherlands

Daring to Ask for Help
Pierre-Boris Kalitventzeff, Coach, Belgium, Member

Seeking Help in the Interest of a Cause
srinivas, Lecturer, India, Member

Please HELP!!!!!
Gregory Johnson, Coach, United States, Premium Member


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